http: ClientRequest streamlike

[ronag]

Improve ClientRequest to make it more "streamlike".

• ignore multiple aborts (http: ignore multiple abort #28706)
• emit close on socket re-use (http: emit close on socket re-use #28685)
• deprecate abort, fix destroy (http: ClientRequest.abort is destroy #28683)
• deprecate finished (doc: deprecate finished #28679)
• always emit error or end (http: emit ECONNRESET if no 'aborted' listener #28677)
• don't emit end after aborted (http: don't emit end after aborted #27984)
• emit pending 'data' before 'error' (http: don't emit 'data' after 'error' #28711)
• OutgoingMessage streamlike (http: OutgoingMessage streamlike #28969)
• destroy() should handle 2nd arg callback

[targos]

@ronag should this stay open?

[ronag]

Nope. All fixed. Thanks for the ping.