Currently, we use the terminology "Child died" when child processed get terminated.
We discussed the terminology in #14293 (comment) , copying my comment from there:
I'm usually the last one to worry about that sort of stuff - but is it possible this terminology is offensive? If we swapped out other trigger references I think it would be nice to have a code base without dead children.
@jasnell suggested we change the terminology to "Child exited". I agree it's better terminology, in general I think we should avoid irrelevant stuff that might cause people to feel uneasy (like death related terminology in code) where we can and I think it could help keep the project friendly and inclusive.